THIS INTROVERT

Being an introvert doesn't mean that we lack communication skills, it's just we don't want to and that's a natural trait among introverts. As for extroverts, they recharge by conversing with people around whereas introverts drain out being around people.

It's pretty exhausting around large groups because introverts take it in all and extroverts feel their best and most energized when in group. (It's scientific)

One of the biggest introvert problem is, when people ask if I am okay on loop, because I am quiet, when I am just in my little world thinking unusual stuff or sometimes trying to avoid the judgmental questions.

Introverts mainly live in two worlds, we visit the world of people but solitude and the inner world will always be our home.

While extroverts are verbal processors and spit out whatever they think, introverts need to think before we speak. This leads to a slower and more thoughtful communication style that involves fewer words and longer pauses.

The point is people need to know that introverts aren't depressed or mad or antisocial, it's just we need to not talk to anyone for while.

The introvert culture is actually wanting to contribute to a conversation but overthinking what we are about to say to the point where the topic has already changed and now we are aware of the fact that we haven't spoken much and worried, people might think we are weird or rude.

Introverts tend to possess the loudest minds, only if others could get a peak would know us better.

Introverts are special and unique, we are capable of acting like extroverts for the sake of work we consider important, people we love, or anything we value highly. Introverts can even be social by choice when with our favourite circle of people.

It's a common mistake to presume that introverts will hate if no one talks to us, but we can sit quietly for hours, thinking things through. And yes, we enjoy it.

Just because introverts don't talk, never assume that we are bored, shy or snobby. Introverts enjoy people watching, like to observe and absorb often for extended period of time.

The day I learned that I was an introvert was the day my life began to change. That day, I started to accept myself as I really am, no longer as who others thought I should be.

Sometimes, it's funny when people try to figure me out, like good luck, till date I myself couldn't figure me out.
"I am the one who loves to write but hates to speak. I am the one who loves silence, but dies without music."





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